By Pamela Kain
She
wont get home until 2:30 or 3 in the morning, and her
son has learned not to expect her any earlier because shes
usually at the bar that late.
She
knows whos playing each night, and the waitresses call
her by name. They know what she wants.
This
vivacious regular talks to her friends and meets new people
not just on good nights, but every night.
She
wouldnt have it any other way though.
Shes
been doing this for years. Never ceasing, but for the occasional
get-away.
This
is her life.
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A
story of a woman, her love of music and her dedication to
bringing live jazz acts to the Toledo area for nearly 40 years.
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Her life is in a bar called Rustys, and she is Rusty. I
dont drink and I dont smoke. I just work here,
she said.
Nicknamed Rusty by friends, Rusty Monroe, now 82, has been running
Rustys
Jazz Café in Toledo since 1963 at the urging of area jazz
musicians with the itch to play. There was a need for jazz,
she said.
Rusty is jazz, and jazz is Rusty, said Jerry DePrisco,
a local musician who directs and plays with Rustys Thursday
night regulars, the Big Band Bash, as he has for the past 10 years.
But, shes not just a figurehead for jazz. She also runs a
business.
On a Thursday near midnight, she works under yellow lights in a
remote corner of the smoky and dimly lit yet still-lively jazz venue
handwriting paperwork like the old days. Shes doing the payroll
just like any other manager might, except most others rely on the
efficiency of modern technology.
Besides payroll, she schedules hours for her staff of about 15
and answers all of their questions. She manages musicians for performances,
and always pays close attention to her customers.
She just wont quit. Shes outlived two husbands and
outworked three sons. Now a grandmother and soon to be a great-grandmother,
it would seem that Monroe should be ready to settle down. But shes
not. My sons have all retired, but Im not ready. This
is what I like to do, so they let me do it.
Having lived through the Great Depression, World War II, the Industrial
Revolution, and a myriad of other historical events, Monroe said
she feels like shes pretty much seen it all.
Through it all, she said shes very blessed. Monroe stays active,
she said, through the young lives that frequent her business.
Im always learning something new.
Monica Cuevas, a 20-year-old waitress at Rustys, said its
not like work to work for Monroe. I cannot leave this place.
I just like working here, she said.
Cuevas, who is also an exchange student pursuing an International
Business degree at Owens Community College, began coming to Rustys
with friends when she was in high school at Ottawa Hills. I
love jazz. Its the main reason I work here, she said.
Cuevas said that she likes that its a cozy place and its
open seven nights per week with live performers every night.
Monroe draws people in from all walks of life. On one night, people
wear tee shirts and jeans while others don ties or dresses. Rustys
is a place where people can feel comfortable. Some customers come
to eat or drink or chat with friends, and some even come to do homework,
all while listening to professional live jazz, a rarity in the area.
Walls at Rustys are full of pictures and posters, and mirrored
walls reflect the smiling faces of patrons.
Relics from the past are scattered amidst booths and tables with
chairs. An old cash register sits idle behind the bar. And table
lamps are stuck where there is space. A fireplace and fake flowers
bring a home-like quality.
Conversation buzzes low beneath the electricity of guitars and
pounding of hand-drums on Thursdays and the big brass horn blowers
on Tuesday nights. Other nights bring other sounds, but its
still the same old Rustys.
Were always open and theres always live jazz,
Monroe said. In fact, she even opened one day after a small fire
broke out in the kitchen early in her career as a café owner.
The musicians and my staff really didnt want to shut
down, so we cleaned it up and opened the doors, she said.
And the jazz musicians just keep on coming.
She said shes booked up until next March with bands playing
every night and they keep coming to her.
DePrisco said his friends first brought him to Rustys and
he just kept coming. They just dont come any better
than Rusty, DePrisco said. Shes the first lady
of jazz.
Tony Ben, a hand percussionist for Cookin which plays on
Thursdays, said Rusty gets major acts, and she does it all
alone. Shes an amazing woman.
Ben, who won a Grammy, said shes someone to admire. She
toughed it out when women werent in fashion. She was
a working mother when it was unpopular. She stepped in to protect
and share responsibility for her family.
Monroe said she has always loved jazz and she has always had music.
As a little girl, she would crank up her familys Victrola
and play records. Her father would play Viennese waltzes on his
violin.
Her mother died when she was 10, but Monroe learned from her a
lot about life and being a successful person. We were taught
to make our own decisions, she said. Work was not a
bad word when I was growing up, it was a challenge.
The challenges get easier with time because everythings history,
she said. My sons wouldve liked to make life easier
for me, but this is what I want, and they let me do it.
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