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Differences Between High School and College
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High School
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Teacher/Student Contact
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Contact closer and more frequent (5 days a week).
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Competition/Grades
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Academic competition is not as strong; good grades can often be obtained with minimum effort.
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Status
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Students establish a personal status in academic and social activities based on family and community factors
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Counseling/Dependence
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Students can rely on parents, teachers and counselors to help make decisions and give advice. Students must abide by parents'
boundaries and restrictions.
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Motivation
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Students receive stimulation to achieve or participate from parents, teachers and counselors
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Freedom
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Students' freedom is limited. Parents will often help students out of a crisis should one arise
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Distractions
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There are distractions from school, but these are partially controlled by school and home.
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Value Judgments
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Students often make value judgments based on parental values; thus, many of their value judgments are made for them
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College
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Teacher/Student Contact
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Faculty are available during office hours (posted hours each week) and by appointment to address students' concerns.
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Competition/Grades
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Academic competition is much stronger; minimum effort may produce poor grades.
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Status
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Students can build their status as they wish; high school status can be repeated or changed.
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Counseling/Dependence
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Students rely on themselves; they see the results of making their own decisions. It is their responsibility to seek advice
as needed. Students set their own restrictions.
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Motivation
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Students apply their own motivation to their work and activities as they wish
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Freedom
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Students have much more freedom. Students must accept responsibility for their own actions.
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Distractions
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The opportunity for more distractions exists. Time management will become more important.
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Value Judgments
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Students have the opportunity to see the world through their own eyes and develop their own opinions and values.
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Adapted from Mullendore, R.H. and Hatch, C. (2000). Helping your first-year college student succeed: A guide for parents.
Columbia, S.C.: OCM. and Texas A&M University (2000).
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